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An Apostolic Roundtable on Christian Sexuality and Culture

Imagine a roundtable discussion in the early Church with the apostles in attendance that addressed questions about sexuality and culture.  This 1st century discussion would not have been very different from a discussion in our day.  There were some teachers who approached the culture from Scripture, and others who approached Scripture from the influence of the culture.  The Christian apostles had to respond: would they maintain the sexual ethics of the Old Testament, an ethic from Judaism, even in a Gentile world, or would they accommodate their theology to the Graeco-Roman practices of their day?  This imaginary meeting that follows did, in fact, take place (Acts 15)—we just do not have details of the discussion.  Yet we do have the writings of the apostles in the New Testament, which are presented here.

In attendance of the imaginary meeting were Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, Jude, and an unknown apostle who was writing a detailed work to a Hebrew church in the diaspora.  All agreed that sexual issues were not peripheral teaching in the Church, nor were they to be accommodated to the culture.  While some not part of the meeting apparently were suggesting that Christians could hold different views and still walk together, was this really true?  Could Christians really entertain a variety of views?  These were questions that could divide the Church—as they have done today.  What did the apostolic Church—authors of Scripture—conclude?

Paul spoke first, saying ‘“Flee sexual immorality.  Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.  Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?  You are not your own, for you were bought with a price.  So glorify God in your body”’ (1 Corinthians 6.18-20).  He looked around, adding, ‘Sexual immorality, impurity, and sensuality are works of the flesh.  “Those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God” (Galatians 5.19, 21; cf. Ephesians 5.5). 

Matthew agreed, ‘I recall Jesus saying that out of the heart come various sins, including sexual immorality’ (15.19).  ‘Yes,’ said Mark, ‘He said that about sexual immorality, adultery, and sensuality along with other sins like murder, theft, and evil thoughts’ (7.20-23).  ‘He didn’t limit sin to acts, as some are in the habit of doing, but also spoke against sinful thoughts.’  Matthew said, ‘Oh, yes, He warned against lust, not just adultery’ (Matthew 5.27). 

John reflected, ‘“The world is passing away with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever’” (1 John 2.17). 

The rest looked at Peter and asked for his thoughts.  ‘Well,’ he said, ‘we have the classic example of Sodom and Gomorrah when we ask whether sexual ethics is a crucial concern for God.  Whatever their lawless deeds—deeds that God so dramatically punished—they especially included those who “indulge in the lust of defiling passion and despise authority”’ (2 Peter 2.10).  Jude nodded.  ‘We must “contend for the faith that was once for all delivered to the saints,” and this faith includes understanding that God’s grace is not a license for sensuality.  I mean the sort of indulging in sexual immorality and unnatural desire that was found in Sodom and Gomorrah (Jude 3-7). 

Paul added, ‘There is also the case of when the Israelites committed sexual immorality with Moabites and God turned His anger on them.  Some twenty-three thousand were killed by a plague’ (1 Corinthians 10.8; cf. Numbers 25.1-9). 

The unknown apostle agreed.  ‘Look, none of us are against sexuality, just immorality.  The proper place for sex is within the marriage between a husband and wife—“The marriage bed is undefiled.”  But “God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous”’ (Hebrews 13.4). 

“Frankly,” Luke said, “We’ve addressed this issue before in Jerusalem, and I’m glad to say that the same position was reached there.  Paul, Peter—you remember; you were there.  So was James, the brother of our Lord, as well as His disciples.  We even wrote a letter to the Gentile believers because we needed to decide what from the Old Testament law applied to them.  We said that they were to abstain from sexual immorality’ (Acts 15.20, 29; 21.25). 

‘I suppose,’ one of them reflected, ‘some people will say we are simply all about judgement and not very pastoral.’  ‘They will say that, for sure,’ said Paul.  ‘But the will of God is our sanctification’ (1 Thessalonians 4.3).  ‘I can’t imagine anything more pastoral than that.”  Peter nodded.  ‘Look, we know that those who do not know God think we are quite weird because we do not do what they do, “living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies,” and so on—living in a “flood of debauchery” (1 Peter 4.2-3). But we have Jesus Christ, the chief Shepherd” (5.4).  He suffered in the flesh, and we should too, ceasing from sin and no longer living for human passions but God’s will’ (4.1-2).

 Paul said, “God’s grace is not just about forgiveness; it is also about the transformation of unhealthy hearts and activities.  Pastoral care is the outworking of a life in Christ.  We could call it a kind of “conversion therapy,” as long as we mean by that that God’s power is at work within us (Ephesians 3.20; 1 Thessalonians 2.13). We are no longer to present our “members as slaves to impurity and lawlessness leading to more lawlessness” but to “righteousness leading to sanctification”’ (Romans 6.19).  ‘Yes,’ added the unknown apostle, ‘God is at work within us, equipping us “with everything good” so that we can do His will.  He works in us what is “pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ”’ (Hebrews 13.21).

Peter stood up.  'Good,' he said.  'We are at one on this crucial issue—everyone, everywhere, always.[1] It is not a peripheral issue.  It is not one on which we can agree to disagree.  It is about continuing in Scriptural teaching and not following the culture, which opposes God's design for human sexuality.  Moreover, the Gospel itself is at stake here, for we believe that God has called us to holiness, forgiven our sins, and empowers us to live according to His good will.'  'And what if this splits the Church?' someone asked.  John stood up, '“If some go out from us, then we know that “they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us."  But if they go out, that only makes it "plain that they all are not of us"' (1 John 2.19).  Jude stood up, '"Certain people have crept in unnoticed who long ago were designed for this condemnation, ungodly people who pervert the grace of our God into sensuality” (v. 4).  “In the last time there will be scoffers, following their own ungodly passions.  It is these who cause divisions, worldly people, devoid of the Spirit" (18-19).

In an amazing twist to the event, a whirlwind and shaking took place in the room.  The apostles looked over to a corner of the room, expecting to see the Lord.  Instead, a red call box had arrived.  The door opened, and out stepped several mainline denomination leaders.  'Time machine,' one of them explained, with a wave of his hand to the call box.  'Twenty-first century,' another said, with a proud smile.  The apostles blinked in astonishment.  'So,' said another of the new arrivals, 'sorry we’re a little late.  Have we missed anything in your proceedings?  Never mind.  Hope we can move quickly to find a way to bless cohabitation and same-sex marriages.  Even when we disagree, the main thing is walking together: unity in community, not bothering with the fine print, right?  Must stay relevant to culture--especially Western culture--if we're to be liked by everyone, everywhere, and always.'



[1] This reference is to St. Vincent of Lérins’ understanding of orthodoxy as what has been believed everywhere, always, and by all.  See The Commonitory of Vincent of Lérins (2.6).  Vincent is not arguing that these criteria stand alone, giving final authority to the Church, but regard the interpretation of Scripture, which is itself sufficient for everything (2.5), were it not for disagreement over interpretation.  Church tradition has to do with interpretation, not a second authority independent from Scripture.

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