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Marriage, Family, and Children: Some Christian Values in a Post-Christian West

Among the many challenges that grab our attention in an age of anxiety is that of a widespread and persistent declining birthrate in so many countries—including all the ‘Western’ countries of the world.  This essay highlights some of the basic information—easily accessible online in our day—about population statistics, trends, and birthrates.  The question is raised whether Christian faith fosters a different worldview that leads to our valuing marriage, family, and childbirths.

The World Bank says that a population will be sustainable if the total fertility rate (how many births a woman has over her lifetime) is 2.3.[1]  According to the statistics provided by Database.earth, the global fertility rate peaked in 1963 at 5.0142 children per woman from 1950 to the present.  In 1950, the rate was 4.8596.  Since 1963, the rate has steadily declined.  The rate in 2023 was 2.3118.[2]

The following United Nations chart (World Factbook also posts data) lists fertility rates for a selection of American and European countries posted by Statistics Times.[3]

Canada

1.473

Poland

1.476

UK

1.576

USA

1.662

Austria

1.479

Ireland

1.755

Mexico

1.779

Greece

1.38

Norway

1.519

Uruguay

1.478

Italy

1.307

Sweden

1.672

Brazil

1.6.17

Portugal

1.375

France

1.784

Colombia

1.681

Spain

1.303

Germany

1.538

In addition to these, the statistics of certain other countries might be noted: China: 1.205; Japan: 1.328; India: 1.982; Russia: 1.538; Australia: 1.603; Turkey: 1.854; Iran: 1.672; Thailand: 1.31.  Singapore is at 1.05.  South Korea's fertility rate is a shocking 0.893, with Seoul at 0.59.  Hong Kong is at 0.78.

Every country noted above (and there are more) has a negative birth rate.  Two countries in Africa have a slightly negative birth rate: Morocco (2.243) and South Africa (2.294).  Every other country in Africa has a positive birth rate—over the 2.3 number.  The highest birth rates are in Niger (6.596) and Chad (6.033).  Central Africa Republic, Congo, Angola, and Somalia are also high, between 5 and 6 births per woman.

What does a declining population mean for society?  One might argue that the world is already overpopulated, and a declining population is good news.  Overpopulation affects the use of resources, the earth’s pollution, and the possibility of conflict and warfare.  Raw numbers, however, are not the only data to consider.  The trajectories and dynamics of change must also be considered.

According to Isabel Schnabel, executive board member of the European Central Bank, warns that a decline in the global population will drive up the cost of labour, drive down global productivity, and therefore drive up inflation.[4]  A shrinking population, especially when people are living longer, will place a greater burden on the working, younger population to support the elderly.[5]  Other than the birth rate, the problem will be exacerbated by anything affecting the ratio of the younger population to the older: diseases, suicides, urban violence and deaths, and drug overdoses.

A declining birth rate may be due to various factors other than choice, such as fertility and the health of the mother during pregnancy.  (As to population statistics, young children may not survive in contexts where nutrition and health care are issues, but often such countries have a culture that, despite poverty, approves of large families.)  Discussing the situation in European countries, Madeleine Armstrong argues that government social programmes and policies to aid parents and children, perhaps good in themselves, do not improve the fertility rates in a country, but the strength of the economy does.[6]  She cites Sweden’s falling fertility rate despite generous policies for families, whereas Britain’s fertility rate increased after Margaret Thatcher froze child benefits in 1987 in order to improve the economy.  (A very different Britain today has an unsustainably low fertility rate of 1.576.)  Her conclusion is that ‘What it can do is help people to feel more hopeful about the future by supporting economic growth.[7] 

This may well be a major factor for the current discussion of fertility rates in Europe.  It does not seem to be a reason for low fertility rates everywhere today or at all times.  In Jesus' day, low rates of marriage and fertility were notable in certain parts of the Roman Empire.  Tacitus, a 1st/2nd c. AD Roman historian, mentions a similar problem during the reigns of the Roman emperors Augustus and Tiberius.  Certain laws were passed to encourage marriage and childbirth.  In 18 BC, Augustus introduced the Lex Julia de maritandis ordinibus, which required citizens of Rome to marry and limited marriage across social boundaries.  The next year, the Lex Julia de adulteriis coercendis established the punishment for adultery as separation and banishment, and some of their property was confiscated.  A father was in his legal rights to kill his daughter and her adulterous partner, and a husband could kill the partner and was required to divorce his wife.  In AD 9, the Lex Poppaea included various provisions, including the promotion of marriage by stipulating that a celibate person could not inherit unless he married within 100 days of the will’s effect.  The Lex Julia legislation allowed a widow or widower one year to remarry, and a divorced woman was given six months, but the Lex Poppaea extended the time to two years and one and a half years, respectively.  It further restricted the inheritance to childless couples to only half of what was bequeathed.  Tacitus tells us that, in Tiberius’ time, marriage and childbearing was still not popular (Annals III.25)—such legislation proved ineffective, except possibly increasing the practice of adopting someone for inheritance purposes.

Abortion is a major factor affecting statistics on births per female.  It is not only a common practice in Western countries but also in countries like Russia and China.  According to Worldometer, more than 44.6 million abortions were performed in 2023, and this marked the fifth consecutive year in which abortion was the world’s leading cause of death.[8]  According to World Population Review, ‘roughly 73 million induced abortions occur worldwide each year….’[9]  The statistics for several countries for the abortion rate are:

China: 24.2; Russia: 53.7; Japan: 12.3; Vietnam: 35.2; Australia: 19.7; New Zealand: 19.7; India: 3.1; Romania: 27.8; Italy: 10.6; Norway: 15.2; Sweden: 20.2; Finland: 11.1; Germany: 7.8; France: 16.9; United Kingdom: 17; United States: 20.8; Canada: 15.2; Mexico: 0.1; Cuba: 24.8

Figures are not reported for the Middle East, South America, or Africa, except that South Africa’s rate is 4.5.  The wide spectrum of abortion rates in countries permitting abortion suggests that culture and ethics play a major role in fertility rates and raise questions about which groups (age, education, ethnicity, religion) in the countries practice abortion and why they do.

Despite the falling fertility rates in so many countries, the world’s population is growing.  In 1800, the world’s population is estimated to have been 1 billion, whereas today it is just over 8 billion.[10]  Our World in Data provides the following map and numbers of the current populations of countries in the world:


Populations per country, February 2024, Our World in Data[11]

The growth and the growth rate of the world’s population is graphed as follows:


Population growth and growth rate of the world’s population, Our World in Data[12]

While we see trends in such data, we should also recognise that population statistics are affected by many factors and differ by region and over time.  Plague decimated the European population in the 14th century.  Warfare at times reduces a country’s population.  What, however, causes a population to decline by choice?

One answer might be given by the 3rd century BC, Greek historian Polybius (c. 200-c. 117 BC).  In a brief reflection on divine versus human control of history, he argues that humans are responsible for many things that happen.  Of interest is his example, which is relevant to our time as well.  Polybius says that there was a decline in population not due to wars or diseases but to people simply not marrying and having children, or to people only having enough children to sustain the population.  The reason for this, he suggests, was that people wanted a life of ease and pleasure rather than raising families.  He writes,

In our time all Greece was visited by a dearth of children and generally a decay of population, owing to which the cities were denuded of inhabitants, and a failure of productiveness resulted, though there were no long-continued wars or serious pestilences among us. If, then, any one had advised our sending to ask the gods in regard to this, what we were to do or say in order to become more numerous and better fill our cities,—would he not have seemed a futile person, when the cause was manifest and the cure in our own hands? For this evil grew upon us rapidly, and without attracting attention, by our men becoming perverted to a passion for show and money and the pleasures of an idle life, and accordingly either not marrying at all, or, if they did marry, refusing to rear the children that were born, or at most one or two out of a great number, for the sake of leaving them well off or bringing them up in extravagant luxury. For when there are only one or two sons, it is evident that, if war or pestilence carries off one, the houses must be left heirless: and, like swarms of bees, little by little the cities become sparsely inhabited and weak. On this subject there is no need to ask the gods how we are to be relieved from such a curse: for any one in the world will tell you that it is by the men themselves if possible changing their objects of ambition; or, if that cannot be done, by passing laws for the preservation of infants. On this subject there is no need of seers or prodigies (Polybius, Histories 37.9).[13]

An answer to population growth and decline such as this could explain the population statistics in our time and in different regions as well.  The primary population growth occurs in the third world countries, whereas the first world countries of North America, Europe, Australia, and Asia are where populations are declining.  We must be careful not to assume a single answer to population statistics, but we might give thought to Polybius’s suggestion.

In the West, marriage has been severely undermined by birth control, delayed entrance to adulthood (higher education), the increase of divorce, and the new notion in world history that people of the same sex might marry.  The cost of living, even in wealthy countries, might deter a couple—married or not—from having children or from having a family over the magic 2.3 number of sustainability. 

The West has also seen a change of attitude to children.  A self-seeking individual or couple, bent on self-pleasure and possibly anxious about their own wealth, will see childbearing as a loss of freedom and income.  Tax laws that favour the individual over the married couple or the married couple over a family will increase the pressure on people to avoid having children.  One might reasonably argue that Western society is either neutral or even negative towards children, and one would be hard pressed to argue that it delights in children.  Indeed, the current sexualisation of children through sex education in schools is more about adults wanting to indoctrinate children at an early age to support their new ethic than it is to protect the innocence of children.

The effects of a low birth rate are potentially devastating for a culture and society, but they might not be experienced immediately where there is significant migration, such as in America and Europe or South Africa today.  However, while migration may keep the numbers of the population even or possibly even increase them, it poses an economic threat that has ripple effects throughout the population, such as care for the elderly of the indigenous population when such care has been provided through government taxation (national health, Medicare, Medicaid, pensions, and other programmes).  Migrants not contributing to taxes, or immigrants taking low paying jobs, will not contribute a fair share of the social costs in health care, children’s education, and pensions.  Yet migrants from countries where birth rates are typically higher will likely produce larger families than indigenous populations in the West that have begun to have a negative birth rate.  This factor is important to examine country by country and year by year.  Still one wonders if the decline in a Christian worldview and the increase of an immigrant population from Muslim countries in Europe will provide some understanding to population statistics in regard to birthrates.  The migration across open borders in the United States, on the other hand, may provide different data as many of the migrants are from a more Christian culture in Central and South America.  Even so, many of these migrants are children without parents or single men, and an increasing number of these migrants are from regions of the world beyond the Americas.

While several points have been set on the table for a wider discussion here, a major point in looking at statistics has to do with how a culture values children.  One does not have to be Christian to value marriage and family, of course, but are Christians in the West encouraging early marriages, stable families, and the bearing of children?  Do we have a theology that gives us hope to bring children into this world?  Do we have an ethic that is not so focussed on self-security and pleasure with the rest of Western culture that we can value children?

A simple story in the Gospels finds an application in such a discussion.  In a culture that valued children but not their presence in the adult matters of Jesus teaching adults, Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me’ (Matthew 19.13-15).  There is no contextual narrowing of Jesus’ meaning; it has wide application.  Jesus valued the little children.  They represented the kind of disciple that would enter the Kingdom of Heaven.  As Christians, we have considerable work to do to value marriage (real marriage—between a man and a woman), families, and children in a culture that attacks all three.



[1] Online: https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.DYN.TFRT.IN (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[2] See the data for each year: https://database.earth/population/fertility-rate (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[3] Online: https://statisticstimes.com/demographics/countries-by-fertility-rate.php (accessed 7 February, 2024).  Both the United Nations' and World Factbook's data are available at this site.  For the statistic for Seoul, Korea, see Louis T. March, 'The South Korean conundrum: an ageing society desperate for babies,' Mercator 19 February, 2024); https://www.mercatornet.com/the_south_korean_conundrum (accessed 19 February, 2024).

[4] Cf. Louis Goss, ‘Global Population Decline Will Drive Up Inflation Long-term, ECB’s Isabel Schnabel Says,’ Morningstar (7 February, 2024); online: Global population decline will drive up inflation long-term, ECB's Isabel Schnabel says | Morningstar (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[5] Ibid.

[6] Madeleine Armstrong, ‘How to Get Brits to have more babies,’ CapX (7 February, 2024); https://capx.co/how-to-get-brits-to-have-more-babies/ (accessed 8 February, 2024).

[7] Ibid.

[8] Cf. Ryan Foley, ‘Abortion was the leading cause of death worldwide in 2023,’ Christian Post (5 January, 2024); Abortion was the top cause of death worldwide in 2023 | Politics News (christianpost.com) (accessed 7 February, 2024).  See the constantly updated statistics of the Worldometer: Worldometer - real time world statistics (archive.org) (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[10] Cf. Hannah Ritchie, Lucas Rodés-Guirao, Edouard Mathieu, Marcel Gerber, Esteban Ortiz-Ospina, Joe Hasell and Max Roser, ‘Population Growth,’ Our World in Data; Population Growth - Our World in Data (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[11] Ibid.

[12] Max Roser and Hannah Ritchie, ‘How has the world population growth changed over time?’ Our World in Data 1 June, 2023); How has world population growth changed over time? - Our World in Data (accessed 7 February, 2024).

[13] Polybius, Histories, trans. Evelyn S. Shuckburgh (London: Macmillan, 1889; reprint Bloomington 1962).


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